This is also true if he texts you at odd hours in the morning. If he only texts you late at night or while he’s drunk, he’s probably not being legit.
Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t respond to a text like this. He might feel hurt and need to take some time for himself. If he responds and gets angry, it might be best to block his number. It’s always good to keep your answers as concise and simple as possible.
Your ex’s new boo probably has no idea you two are still in contact. It’s not nice of your ex to blindside them like that.
If you and your new partner are serious, you might even want to let them know that your ex texted you. That way, there won’t be any trust issues about it down the line. Even if you aren’t in a relationship, you can use this excuse just to get your ex to stop reaching out.
For instance, you could say, “Remember how opposite our interests are? You would end up hanging out with your friends and I’d be with mine. We barely spent any time together. ”
This is a perfect response to use if he’s trying to contact you late at night or while he’s drunk.
“Speaking of missing, have you seen my blue sweater? I can’t find it anywhere. ” “Yeah, I really miss your dog. How’s she doing?”
Don’t let your ex reaching out throw off any of your progress. If you were doing well moving on, keep doing you!
If you’re getting a late night or drunk text, now’s not the time to discuss your relationship. If your ex reaches out in the middle of the day and wants to talk, though, you can be open to a discussion with him. Instead of immediately asking for the relationship back, look for an opportunity to go on a date first.
