What qualifies as a semi-formal dress? A semi-formal dress is classy and elegant, often made with a fancy material such as silk, lace, or satin. If you’d wear the dress to a dance club, it’s likely either too much like a cocktail dress or too casual. If it could be mistaken for a ball gown, you’ve gone too far! Aim for understated sophistication. [3] X Research source While there’s no traditional color for bar mitzvah dresses, it’s common to wear clothing with a neutral or dark color palette. In some ultra-Orthodox communities, women are discouraged from wearing bright shades. [4] X Research source You should fit in nicely if you choose a dress that’s navy blue, black, burgundy, ivory, or brown. [5] X Research source

In Orthodox communities, women are expected to wear dresses with sleeves that are at least elbow length. When in doubt, wear a long-sleeved dress or bring a cardigan. [7] X Research source

There really isn’t a right or wrong way for a woman to wear a head covering, so however you choose to wear it is fine.

For ultra comfort, pair a flowing or A-line dress with a pair of satin flats.

Skip the flashy colors and stick with a conservative color scheme. Dark colors like black, navy, and gray are best. [12] X Research source

When it comes to accessories, pass on the cufflinks and pocket square. Keep it low-key with minimal accessories, such as a watch. [14] X Research source

To wear a kippah, place it on the crown of your head. It should only cover the back or top of your head, not your forehead. [17] X Research source Some people secure the kippah with a bobby pin or hair clip; they may have some available at the synagogue, or you can bring your own. [18] X Research source A kippah is also referred to as a yarmulke. [19] X Research source

Given the sacred nature of the ceremony, no photos are allowed. In some traditional communities, photography is strictly forbidden on Shabbat. [27] X Research source

It’s okay if you don’t do everything perfectly, nobody expects a visitor to know exactly what to do. Simply trying is enough to demonstrate respect.

The number 18 (or “chai”) is a symbolic number in Judaism that represents life and luck. Other gift ideas include jewelry (such as a Star of David pendant), books (especially with Jewish themes), and Judaica (Jewish ritual objects), such as a tzedakah (charity) box. [31] X Research source